Women Electric Torture What Do You Think Is The Essence Of Love Between Man & Woman And How Is It Different From Other Kinds Of Love?

What do you think is the essence of love between man & woman and how is it different from other kinds of love? - women electric torture

I'm trying to understand what happens when described between a boy and a man Girlde / women their relationship as true love. Sorry to be learned (for electric!) At the opposite sex (opposite), with a good clear reason (for example, distrust, anxiety, nausea ,...) so I think that love. But why love is so exhausting and use, and accompanied by bitterness, pain (but only if I let myself) being tortured?